Well, I fail at blogging for this month, but to be fair, I’ve been pretty busy looking for an apartment. I’ve finally found one, and I’ll be moving in with my girlfriend tomorrow. It’s a very drastic change from where I was one year ago, when I first started this blog. Back then, I was suffering the loss of someone I really cared about, whom I had a terrible time communicating with about asexuality. Now, I’m in a committed relationship with someone who understands asexuality pretty well, and with whom I generally have a pretty great relationship with.

I don’t think I would have gotten to this point if I hadn’t started this blog; it’s helped me a lot with just articulating my thoughts about asexuality, and it’s good to get my perspective out there so that maybe reading about my experiences can help others. Thanks to all of my readers, especially those of you who have left me comments or emailed me directly–without you, I wouldn’t have kept this up!

Here, more for my own personal reference than anything else, are some stats for the year:

Top Ten Posts

1. Doing Sex – Tips for the Adventurous Asexual; 646 views
2. Asexuality as a Fetish; 576 views
3. Gender Variation in the Asexual Community: Results; 501 views
4. Why Trendy Bisexuals are Dangerous to Asexuality; 497 views
5. On “Creepy Asexual Guys,” Porn, and Misogyny; 436 views
6. Dating Site Review: OKCupid; 393 views
7. Asexual Masturbation; 308 views
8. Sex as a Responsibility?; 286 views
9. Sex 2.0; 295 views
10. Positive Metaphors: Chandelier Culture; 225 views

Most Comments: Almost-Sexual Frustration

Most Popular Month: March 2009; 2,088 views

Busiest day: Monday, February 23, 2009; 237 views

Total views: 13,873